It's fascinating, AlohaDawg, how we can agree on so many things yet still approach politics from a fundamentally different place. I suppose much of it has to do with how you are raised -- I'm a lifelong Democrat in a family of Democrats. My guess is that you have always been a Republican. It's very encouraging to me, given those assumptions, that we end up approaching the very same positions with only slight differences.
If I won the Powerball, I think I would devote a big chunk of money toward starting a new party. I'd call it the Moderate party. We would value pragmatism over dogmatism. You'd have to pass a test on civics and current events to become a member of the party. Candidates for office would be chosen by lot and could only serve a maximum of two terms in any office. We would not accept donations over $500 and would actively seek donations under $50.
I have been around state government and state government politics all my life. I enjoy it, I'll probably spend the rest of my career around it. I write statutes and regulations and get them passed. I'm on a first name basis with a couple dozen legislators, Cabinet Secretaries and Governor's aides. I'm not bragging. Really. Hanging around government is a lot like hanging around a racetrack or a neighborhood tavern. The cast of characters is just as colorful and if you hang around long enough, well, you become colorful too.
I'm rambling.
I guess my point is the problem with government is mostly the politicians. There are others, no question. But as long as we elect our leaders we've got two major built in problems:
1. Doing the popular thing is more important than doing the correct thing.
2. The people who get you elected (i.e. give you money) get heard.
I don't think there's anyway to change that and retain an elective system. It also disturbs me that people who are utterly ignorant about what's going on in the word get to cast the same vote as you and I do. Citizens have a duty not to be ignorant about candidates and issues. Thus a free and active media is vital. Our mass media isn't -- it suffers from issues virtually identical to 1. and 2. above.
Enough.
Re: Full Faith and Credit. You got it right. States are obligated to recognize the laws and judgments of sister states. I don't think you realize the full implication of that, however. It has a very homogenizing effect on how states treat issues. TalkyDude hit on it when he brought up no-fault divorce. Essentially, every state now has no-fault divorce. If a state is going to have to recognize a legal status someone has obtained by taking a 4 hour flight to Vegas anyway, they might as well make the legal status official in their own state.
RE: Federal vs. State jurisdiction. I think this is a very interesting question. More discretion probably should reside with the states. This is definitely not the trend, however. I would suggest the Feds should set ceilings and floors for State regulated areas, then get out of the way. The problem is 50 different regulatory systems can be inefficient and expensive for the regulated parties. Some things are better suited to a single, uniform system of regulation.
I'll STFU now.