from right before the thread was locked:
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The line where you can dehumanise someone/thing is a fine one. Why is it okay to kill a three month old fetus but not okay to kill a 34 year old woman?
i will not state that it is "okay to kill a three month old fetus", which is what you would have me do by phrasing your question the way that you have.
there are a number of reasons why it is not okay to kill an adult of any age or any gender, just as there are a number of reasons as to why it IS okay to kill such an adult. however, just because there are reasons to do something does not make such a thing universally okay. for instance, a reason to kill an adult would be as penalty for crime, a la "death penalty". that would be a reason, and in some ways of thinking would make the killing "okay".
however, i take your question to mean the killing of "innocents", since you juxtapose a 34 year old woman against a baby, wherein a baby is a cultural pillar of presumed innocence.
to further pull at the thread, why is it ok to kill an animal and not a human? why is it ok to kill some animals, but not others? don't kill the fluffy bunny (which is a "useless" animal: no milk, no eggs, shits everywhere and is rather poor companionship, problems with population control, etc) but kill the moo cow and eat 'em or wear 'em (while alive they provide fertilizer and milk [and cheese, etc]). [and yes, the rabbit produces "shit" and the cow produces "fertilizer". such are my cultural worldviews].
if you want to make a declaration that it is not okay to kill a baby, then do so, by all means! but a baby is _not_ a 34 year old woman, nor is it a rabbit nor a cow.
having said all that, do you really want the reasoning behind the not okay-ness of killing a 34 year old woman discussed, or do you want to go back to the discussion of when is it "killing babies"?
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jough, i'm not arguing, i'm discussing.
if you don't feel like discussing, that's cool, just say you don't feel like discussing, just don't accuse me of trying to kill adam sandler.
jeeze, i thought little nicky was kind of funny.