I ended up going with something in between the two hairstyles -- a little shorter than the pic I posted but a little more layered than the gamine crop. It's actually not quite as short as it was when I was in college, which incidentally also coincided with the time in my life when most of the people I knew casually thought I was a lesbian. Just because my hair was cut like a boy's (#2 guard in the back, a little longer on top) and I came to class in a daily uniform of combat boots, torn Levi 505s, a wife-beater and (weather permitting) a flannel shirt. And most of the people I hung out with were lesbians. And I liked to make out with girls sometimes. Oddly, I didn't come to think of myself as bi until after I was married and I read a survey that said that only 20% of women have same-sex attractions at some point in their lives. I figured it was a thing everyone had, but most people just didn't act on it for various reasons. A little more research into the subject assured me that no, most women just aren't that into girls. Go figure.
Point here is, I like the new 'do very much. It has the option of being either domestic or dykey, depending how much product I decide to use. I like being able to make that choice on a day-to-day basis. Pics to be posted soon -- as soon as I can borrow a digital camera. I'll post them in the picture thread so as not to cross-contaminate this one.
Now, let's talk about hot men giving each other blowjobs some more.