So, these the actual songs I picked.
AC/DC - Rocker
Aerosmith - Train Kept A Rollin'
Bad Religion - Entropy
Lionel Belasco
Black Flag - Nervous Breakdown
David Bowie - Ashes to Ashes, Panic in Detroit, Young Americans
Brad - Raise Love
Cars - Just What I Needed, You Might Think
Johnny Cash - Ring of Fire
Commodores - Brick House (12" version)
Cream - Swlabr
Damned - Smash It Up, Love Song, Melody Lee, Noise Noise Noise, Plan 9 Channel 7
Dead Boys - Ain't Nothin' to Do, Down in Flames, Sonic Reducer (might go with the Rocket From the Tombs version), What Love Is
Fugazi - Bad Mouth, Latin Roots, Steady Diet, Waiting Room
Marvin Gaye - Let's Get it On, Sexual Healing
Al Green - I Can't Get Next to You, Let's Get Married, Let's Stay Together
Green Day - Fashion Victim, St. Jimmy
Hellacopters - Paul Stanley, Venus in Force
Hives - Walk Idiot Walk
Howlin Wolf - Back Door Man, How Many More Years, Red Rooster, Smokestack Lightnin', Wang Dang Doodle, You'll Be Mine
Robert Johnson - Crossroad Blues, From Four 'til Late, I Believe I'll Dust My Broom, Malted Milk, Stop Breakin' Down Blues, Sweet Home Chicago, Travelling Riverside Blues
Live - Iris
Curtis Mayfield - Superfly
Motörhead - Another Perfect Day
NoFX - Bob, I'm Telling Tim, Liza and Louise (hopefully this won't come on until the kids are gone)
Operation Ivy - Junkie's Running Dry
Mohammed Rafi - Jaan Pehechaan Ho
Otis Redding - I Can't Turn You Loose, Try a Little Tenderness
Pearl Jam - Blood
Pixies - Debaser
Ramones - This is going to be very difficult.
Rolling Stones - Little T&A, Stray Cat Blues
Scissor Sisters - Take Your Mama, Tits on the Radio
Spinners - Could it Be I'm Falling in Love, I'll Be Around, Rubberband Man
Split Enz - I Got You
Steely Dan - The Boston Rag
Stereophonics - Check My Eyelids for Holes, More Life in a Tramps Vest
Stone Roses - Love Spreads
Thin Lizzy - Chinatown, Jailbreak
Toad the Wet Sprocket - Crazy Life, Fall Down
Weezer - Fall Together, Hash Pipe
White Stripes - Black Jack Davey, Blue Orchid, Death Letter, Fell In Love With a Girl, Lafayette Blues, St. James Infirmary Blues
Warren Zevon - Ain't That Pretty At All, Roland the Headless Thompson Gunner
also:
Doors - Love Me Two Times
Down By Law - No Equalizer
Gang of Four - To Hell With Poverty
Rocket From the Tombs - So Cold
I picked most of the above by just randomizing and dragging over anything that appealed to me at the time. Other than the above, I would like to respond:
Keith:
I like some Beck, but of course a lot of his shit is hella depressing. Probably I'll do the funky shit off of Midnight Vultures. I wish Debra didn't have that big extra thing on it. I don't know how to fix something like that or I would. Don't have any Happy Mondays, I will check on them. Pogues hmm. Maybe.
Ash:
Certainly B-52s and the Clash yes. I don't have any Oingo-Boingo. Maybe Suicidal but I don't want too much punk on there because everyone at the party is OG punk and they will call me a poseur. My wife hates Tony Loco.
inev:
James Brown will be all over this. I am stupid to have not put him on yet. I don't know Dangerpenis really. I will put on Aretha instead of M & the Vs and Marvelettes or Shirelles or anything like that.
Paul:
it will be the second kind, except I don't have a daughter. They will probably use the office or the kitchen.
A-Dub:
I'm sorry about your vote on the blues, but it will be sprinkled in and hopefully will make somebody come up to me and ask who it is who is covering Eric Clapton/ZZTop/The Doors, so I can shank them. I have not finished with the Steely Dan. I have to be careful not to put too much on because they are my sweet tooth.
inev x 2:
Yes Kanye. It will bother most partygoers, but sometimes a man got to take a stand.
lfm:
Guns 'n Roses will probably make this group riot and damage my home. I think Pink Floyd might slow things down too much. For Beck see above.
linn:
I do not think that 5 means what you think it means. Tony's Theme is a great call. There might be more Pearl Jam but probably it will be Take Me Out to the Ball Game, Dock of the Bay or Break on Through. Prince 1000 times yes. Fuck. I do love me some Modest penis, and they live here in PDX so there's a precedent, but Convenient Parking is a bit tough. Kind of like playing some of the Les Claypool stuff, y'know? (Plus these guys are kind of picky because of local bands, on account of they are all musicians and have studios and shit. Like, if anyone has heard of Smegma, I know a guy in that band. Very indie cred. Three people buy his albums. The music played at this party needs to be really popular so it is ironic, or bands that only I have heard sort of.) Probably Peter Gabriel. The other stuff I do not know but will check out.
Judy:
I told you about the jokes, but probably Psycho Killer. Pogues mentioned above. Probably no Springsteen. Madness yes - great call.
Doc:
I know Bloc Party - this is not that kind of party. Maybe something by BNL. I don't know the rest but will see.
s-s:
The Beasties will be tricky to figure, but will probably show up. I like them a lot. There will be some New Wave.
Lister:
On Metafilter they call that eponysterical, that you can't limit your additions to the list. Lots of great stuff on your list. I will probably put on Flashlight in terms of the Mothership. I don't want the party to mellow, so probably not much from the second half. Isley Brothers and Belafonte definitely. Alcohol is a good call. Maybe Alcoholiday by Teenage Fanclub too.
Thanks awfully, everyone, for the help. I knew that it would come together more smoothly and fruitfully with input from you all. I pruned my set so it is about 5:30 right now. Feel free to suggest more if you would like.