I mean, still, I started making a list of books I want to read, and I gave up. There are too many. I mean, I consider books which have influenced modern culture in significant ways to be worth reading, which is kind of what I do with music, too.
Which, incidentally, is something that I find myself really interested in-- the way different mediums are understood differently because of being processed through different senses. I used to get into really interesting discussions with this girl I was dating last year about the differences between visual art (which was her thing) and music. She said, for instance, that people have an easier time liking "weird" music than "weird" paintings. I, quite frankly, think it's quite the opposite, for the simple reason of duration. I can look at some crazy abstract painting and say "oh, that looks cool," but I don't know how long I could listen to John Cage for before I'd get bored or annoyed.
Then, you know, we started getting into like "what is the musical equivalent of abstract expressionism" or "what is the visual equivalent of jazz" and we realized that we were full of shit, and stopped. probably the best choice.
Also, I don't tell you often enough, Melanie, how much I love you. The love I have for you is deeper than any affection.