I don't understand how feminism has emasculated the straight American man. Let's see. Women can vote. OK, so can I; I'm not disenfranchised. Women can work, and let's assume the feminist ideal that women make as much per dollar as men. Doesn't negatively affect me, I'm still getting paid.
So basically, what it boils down to, is that feminism means that I do the dishes and other household chores half the time instead of none of the time.
Anyone who calls his manhood into question over taking out the trash never had much to begin with.
What's emasculating is that feminists have argued that "anything men can do, we can do better." And this has led not to equality, but to a increasingly large sub-class of women who expect little of their male partners and relatives and then hold themselves up as morally superior.
We have an entire generation of man-children who always have been (and possibly always will be) taken care of by women (mothers, girlfriends, and wives) because women have convinced ourselves that men, being men, are inherently irresponsible and incapable of taking care of themselves. The expectation fulfills itself, and men become more and more dependent on the women in their lives to care for them as we devolve into a downward spiral of female-superior inequity inside the home while economic male-superior inequity continues to dominate outside of it.
Meanwhile, men attach their identities still more firmly to their job titles and salaries, which, in this economic climate, can only spell disaster.
Okay, I admit I'm just trying to start a fight here. But somebody run with this one, please? This board has been TOO QUIET lately.