Really there were just different agendas here. Onstad wanted an intelligent and entertaining dialogue to compliment his work, and when people showed up, they formed a community. The community has very different needs than just being witty and insightful. You're a group of people who came together with only Achewood in common, and have now formed a closer bond based on the message board.
You still talk about Achewood, but it's more about each other now than it is the strip. It's more about your reaction to Onstad than it is about Onstad himeslf. This is not what he was looking for.
He wanted a comedian's forum. I would say something akin to 'Politically Incorrect' where if people aren't knowledgable, they're at least clever. What he got was a clique of sometimes knowledgable, sometimes clever people who didn't always feel inclined to be either. He also got the trolls, dinks, butt-kissers, and randoms that every community swims through from time to time.
That's my long-winded analysis. He wanted it to be about the funny, and you wanted it to be about you. ...and the strip. ...and pornography. ...and how he kept locking threads. ...and Invader Zim somehow.
Hey, it's long winded, but at least it's not 'Nate Small'.