I have never seen them, no. They have not played in Charlotte in a really long time, I think. Or at least, not since I've been aware of them... which is probably not a long time.
Apparently they almost broke up when they were supposed to play at The Milestone here. That place... basically sucks. It is tiny, and loud, and covered in (now, mostly faked) graffiti... I was expecting it to be really cool, but it's just a tiny depressing bar in a shitty part of town. I was really glad that my friend who is in the Air Force and is really fit was there. If it had been just my girlfriend and me... we would have definitely gotten freaked out and left. As it was, passing a sign "In memory of (name), killed on this spot by carjackers" with a date only a few weeks before... was terrifying. When we read the sign, we all screamed a little bit and started driving faster.
also: they came to St Louis right after I got to St Louis, but i had no money, and the show was sold out, and... basically I just didn't go. They were playing with Sonic Youth, too.
a guy I know went and saw them with sonic youth in asheville last summer. He said "that sonic youth band, they seemed kind of cool. Don't you like them or something? But the Lips were awesome!" I kind of wanted to punch him. He is the kind of guy who thinks he knows everything about music, and then says idiotic things that...
ok. basically I just hate him, and he could say anything and I'd still hate him. Anyway, he saw the Flaming Lips. And does not have appreciation for Sonic Youth, as, you know, they don't know how to play their guitars right.
my friend Katie saw them, and apparently screamed "Be my Father Figure!" at Wayne. She is pretty proud of that.