You know I think you're an awesome guy AD, and if religion is even partly responsible for that, great. I am certainly not attempting to bully in disagreeing with your belief about an omnipotent deity however. I just don't believe in it and have an inquisitive mind.
What I do find scary is the extent to which religious people do feel victimised by atheists. Not merely christians. Look at the reaction to apostates in the muslim world. Hell, look at the reactions to heretics a couple of hundred years ago in christianity. From the outside, the US seems still like a christian-centric country, and for atheists to not be allowed to air their views based on the reactions... The atheists in the US media I know of have all received death threats merely for admitting they are atheists, let alone those who discuss religion as I do. If we're supposed to be all loving each other unconditionally, well, surely the religious right should be following that one to the letter?
As I say, particularly here, this is not about you AD.
It doesn't feel comparable really, but when strongly religious people tell me I'm insane for being an atheist, it has little to no effect on how I feel. But I can understand why it would be worse the other way around. I think...
As an agnostic (and even still really), I didn't have any problem with religion, merely the organisation of religion. Since at that point it clearly stops being about the religion for those in control. It's things like this religious leadership (for me religion was, and seems more personal than that anyway) and the reaction to non-believers that scares me about religion. A religious person is going to make decisions based on different criteria to an atheist in certain circumstances, and yet there's no distinction (I agree for very good reasons) when people take the reigns of power. A religious person is most likely going to make a decision based on very different criteria about say abortion. Now that's a doozy I admit, but how about wars. Are you going to feel worse letting people die, believing the way they lived their lives will dictate whether they go to Heaven or Hell? Or in believing that that's it? Once they're dead they're dead.
And certainly, if I see you waiting at the pearly gates before I ship on down to Hell, like Jough, I will perfectly gladly admit how wrong I was. I am proud to have my own beliefs, and to be sure of them, but I am not proud of the fact that I believe there to be no God. I have oft times desired to be able to have faith in a god.
So basically all this rambling was from me wanting to say, I think religious people need to start not being bothered by atheists denouncing their gods. It seems like a slippery slope towards partisan everything (religious peoples drinking tap, non-religious peoples drinking tap, I jest). That and do I need to even mention how many wars have been started by religion? I guess, if atheists can be thick enough skinned to live knowing they are all on their own, why can't religious people be thick enough skinned to ignore other people's beliefs and be sure in their own?
And not try to make us feel like dicks for speaking about our beliefs in earshot, kind of like how it has to be the other way round at the moment.