Don't take that in a crap-way, Rumjaynumbers. Not at all!
You have said that you are a good-lookin' lady and I in no way doubt on this Truth.
You are a rad lady and probably rad looking too. That's not what's in question here.
I'm just saying... I am still relatively new here but... this is one of the few message boards I have ever been to where dudes and ladies seem to be able to discuss sex topics openly and honestly without it turning into some weird knuckle-dragging AOL-chatroom-in-1996 thing of asking the ladies to post pictures of themselves and, later, racy pictures.
I believe I have said before that I have pulled away from a couple of forums because they fell into that trap, into a weird escalating clusterfuck of lookisming and internet-drama and imaginary one-sided romances and...
That is pretty much why I left or mostly-left those places.
Whereas here, ladies are people first, ladies second and less-or-more-pretty ladies a distant third.
I ain't saying either way on whether you are easy on the eyes, either way, dear madam.
What I'm saying is that I just think that to Nabu and to me and to most of the people here, it matters more that you seem to be an awesome person who likes to talk about awesome thing than how rude or not rude you may potentially be physically.
The concern with your look was merely in the way it was dissonant to your avatar.