yeah, also a factor is that he is way heavier than me. He'll be walking around in a t-shirt and boxers and I'll be wearing 2 sweaters.
Also, I might be wrong, but I do think that he always turned the AC on when I didn't think it was that hot.
But seriously, he didn't complain about me turning on the heat last year, when our rent was TWICE what it is now.
I think I am going to have to re-evaluate my heating strategy, though, because the fact that I have my own radiator in my tiny bedroom has been making it get really really hot lately.
The guys who lived here last year suggested getting space heaters for our bedrooms and turning the heat down to avoid this problem, which seems smart.
Also, I do not trust our thermostat, I am going to get a thermometer and put it right next to it on the wall so we can see how warm it actually gets.
Final thought: yes, he is coming up for some punches. I got 2 hours of sleep the night before last, and he came home and was stomping around as usual... then he started barking (?!!?!). I figured, "oh, he doesn't know I'm home." Then he yelled something to me through my door. Then he turned on loud music, and sang along, and then I realized that he had invited someone over for dinner who my girlfriend cannot interact with without tears (it is a long story), and he hadn't told me in advance. UGH. Then he walked into my bedroom without knocking TWICE. I think he might have seen my girlfriend topless.
We were half-asleep enough that it made sense that what we would do is pretend to be asleep for the entire hour or so the girl was here. He knocked on the door repeatedly to tell me to come out, "we have company," and I told him I was too sleepy to come out.
It was worth it to hear him ask the girl "are you a pot smoker?"
He is really not OK with people who smoke, but tries really hard to act like he is. It is funny to observe.
The problem is that he is the type of person who is going to argue with me when I tell him my problems with him, and he has a way of making arguments that make me feel stupid and concede. Argh.
I am remembering that I felt this way about him a year ago, but I missed him a lot when he was in china for 7 months and thought it would be fine to live with him again.
This girl I don't like sent me a survey to fill out for her honor's thesis, and... wow.
I have respect for the idea of our "Women, Gender, and Sexuality Studies" department, but there is this one woman who teaches really silly classes, and it is so obvious that she is the inspiration for this thesis.
This one question is "Do you think you initiate contact with current or potential sexual partners through text message more often than you would if phone calls were the only option?" and then the answers are from "most often" to "least often."