I also think it is interesting that it is so obvious to you guys that grad school is for suckers. Almost everyone I know (who didn't major in engineering or business) is thinking about grad school right now, and being encouraged by their parents. Both of my parents went to grad school (well, my dad got an MBA, which is a different kind of grad school).
This is related to something I think about a lot, social reproduction theory. It occurred to me recently that I have mostly seen it used to discuss either poverty or privilege. You grow up around young single moms and unemployed dads, and it takes away options (educational, professional, health, etc) in a way that tends to turn you into a single mom or unemployed dad. Or, the inverse: the children of the privileged are given lots of opportunities, second chances, etc.
What no one talks about (at least, in the academic stuff I have read) is the way this can break down. For instance, my parents' generation went to college and got good jobs. So they told their kids, the most important thing at your age is to go to a good school. However, in the meantime, the relative effects of a liberal arts degree from a prestigious school (vs, say, a good state school) have gone down, and the price disparity has gone up. So you end up with a bunch of kids of well-off or middle class parents with 200k in student loans and "worthless" degrees from fancy schools. They did everything "right" according to the old rules, but the rules done changed.
I like thinking about this, because I tend to believe that poor people who stay poor aren't any dumber than rich kids who stay rich. They're both carrying out the instructions that were programmed into them from childhood.
(I also tend to think of people as kind of like *****s.)
You can also see this in the current season of Downton Abbey, if any of you guys are illegally watching that.
Yes, Ash, I will be in the Orange County for Thanksgiving. But only for 48 hours. Maybe my friend from college and I can come egg your car or something.
Edit: wow, jesus, flying into places other than Charlotte sucks. I am going to spend 6-8 hours in travel each way. So I will be in the OC a lot less than 48 hours. Going to see if maybe family can make the drive to pick me up at LAX instead of SNA.